Stance on proof-verification
I think the stance of proof-verification questions for some time is that on the positive side :
They contain attempted proofs and therefore effort from the poster. Hence, they differ from a "do my work for me" question, and many users consider such questions worthy of an answer for that reason.
Answers to such questions consist of looking at proof writing, organization of proof, notation etc. with more scrutiny : something that's not typically present in other tags. Learning how to present one's work is an equally important part of proofs, and visitors learn this by observing others' proofs and seeing the lacunae in their work and presentation pointed out.
However, on the negative side :
If not tagged properly, such questions can get in the way of an authoritative question-answer pair. Duplicate closure is a problem because it requires people to say "xyz answer in the dupe candidate is the perfect version of OP's proof that they need critiqued" and people are not very confident with that assertion or with the belief that OP will be helped by duplicate closure, particularly if their maturity differs vastly from the maturity of the writing in the answer of the dupe candidate.
When the proof to be verified is perfectly fine, one of three things occurs, all of which aren't universally desirable. The first (and probably the safest) is that comments to the effect "this is fine!" etc. are left which, from the archiving point of view, is slightly worse off than a question-answer pair. The second is that people answer (maybe as a community-wiki) "yes , this is fine" etc. which tends to attract downvotes. The third is that people give alternate proofs for the same fact instead of critiquing the proof, which isn't good if visitors came specifically for the proof critique.
Finally, if the OP is miles off their proof-attempt (note : I'm talking about basic logic and coherent structure being missing in the proof, or about theorems used which completely lack context etc.) or if the proof is utterly huge, then the question is probably too broad. Also, users have a tendency of not pointing out specifically incorrect steps, but instead presenting their proof and saying "is this right?", which also leads to very broad questions.
On improvement in writing and attitude
Personally, I'm not comfortable with the removal of the tags itself, that seems too strong as an action. However, I am comfortable with demanding more of such questions. Here's what I would suggest helps people write better proof verification questions :
It is difficult for OP's to find mistakes in their work : that's natural to expect. Therefore, in the event that the OP believes that none of their reasoning is shaky, they should mention details that allows experts in presentation and notation to take over and provide quality answers. For example, do they feel that their notation, in parts, is cumbersome? Do they think that a couple of expressions are long and winded and can be simplified? Then those parts should be pointed out specifically. To put it in a nutshell, there should be context that aids the answering of "if the proof is correct, then what exactly can be improved in xyz parts of the proof vis-a-vis presentation, notation and organization of the proof as a whole?".
Another important part of proof-verification is : where you write your proof also matters. For example, if your aim is to exercise the use of a particular theorem because the question appeared in a section of a book which has that theorem as part of its contents, then the proof should contain a line to the effect "xyz theorem is applicable because its hypothesis abc and def are satisfied by equations ... and ...". Another example is in academic papers, where a proof need not be written in much detail but parts of it can be skipped or cited. That context helps users with expertise deliver more quality to the OP's doorstep.
Users have to continue to look up similar problems and provide evidence for why their proof is unique : otherwise, duplicate closure should be in order. Another "prove that $\frac 1n \to 0$" question should not stick because there is a huge chance that it has been reproduced authoritatively in a q-a pair. Users wishing to clarify their proof are clarifying more than just the mathematics, it's also about the structure , organization and notation, so if they haven't seen similar questions or proofs and tried to copy the structure of those proofs, they aren't doing a service to themselves or to the site.
Here's how I think attitudes apropos proof-verification questions need to change :
For questioners, there has to be a desire to not just know if some proof is correct, but in fact, how it can be the best version of itself, and how they can improve their own writing skills. Questions phrased as "here's my work, is this right?" don't show that ambition. Questioners wish for quality from answerers, but that starts with demanding improvement from themselves.
Answerers have to work harder to use their expertise, and not just work for the points. They should go through the OP's context, the notations, the organization of the proof, the presence of complicated expressions which can be simplified, and the likes. They have to present quality. This is personal, but I don't think we should entertain answers containing alternate proofs, particularly if those answerers don't even attempt to contrast the OP's proof with their own in a fine manner. Basically, answerers have to feel that their time is valuable and dedicate themselves completely and properly to excellent questions : that's how quality is delivered.
For curators, I believe they have to take a slightly harder stance than the present on questions that merely contain work and "Is this okay?". Alternate forms of context, or a finer analysis of possible lacunae in the proof from OP itself should be demanded. If this is not possible then closure should be in order, although people should feel free to help out in the comments to improve the question.
On "good", "acceptable" etc.
I wrote , earlier, three bullet points for OP's of proof-verification questions : mention the finer points in your proof that you think require more scrutiny, mention the source of your problem and what your proof is going to be written for (exam, paper, article etc.) and contrast with the existing corpus of proofs. Here is some more delineation :
A large proof's verification should almost always be closed as broad.
Any non-broad question that does at least two of the above satisfactorily and , if possibly a duplicate, does a satisfactory job of contrasting the attempt with the proof in the dupe candidate, counts as a good question in my eyes.
Any question that doesn't do any of the above and admits an authoritative question-answer pair is not acceptable (with emphasis : improving such questions generally takes away more time than finding the next good question). Any question that doesn't do any of the above but is not a duplicate (example : work + "am I right/is this fine?") is not acceptable but can be improved with OP made to point out problematic parts.
Any question that goes a little further than "am I right/ is this fine?" by partially satisfying one of the requirements above is , in my opinion, acceptable. For example, consider "work + "am I right/is this fine" + "we were asked to use Taylor's theorem by our instructor/ this can be found as Exercise 7.12 in Chapter 7 of Rudin". A good question would go further : "I tried to use Taylor's theorem rigorously and I would like to know if I got the hypothesis check and usage correct" or "I have seen xyz tool in Chapter 7 of Rudin and would like to know if its usage can be simplified".
Conclusion
Our aim, conditioned on the premise that we are not entirely removing the proof-verification tag, is to maximize the benefit that questioners and future visitors receive from the website as a whole, and not merely those questions. Keeping this in mind, the entire community has to work together to raise the quality of such questions and the organization of the rest of the site conditioned on such questions being present. If, by way of experiences or evidence, such actions are found to not scale or are simply untenable, only then would I consider the removal of the tag as an option.
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tags. Answers to such often are dupes, or so extremely localized that they are of little use to others. $\endgroup$