Recently I have noticed that have been some issues/arguments going on in the mathematics chat room between certain users. Sometimes the arguments get overboard and become personal, some of the things some users say IMO are extremely rude. Now some user flagged some of these messages for moderator attention and I was told that all moderators across the SE community are notified immediately.
I was in the chat room at that time and the moderator that came by said that we should not unnecessarily flag messages for moderator attention unless they are serious. IMO personal arguments in the chat room are serious. In the event of personal spats happening do you think it warrants one to flag these messages for moderator attention?
Also should users be warned not to have such arguments in the chat room? Also nowhere in the meta thread on chat rules is there anything mentioned on avoiding personal spats. What do you guys think?